He programmed an AI to talk to 5,000 women for him and married one of them

A humanoid-looking AI looking for love

What if a person used AI to simplify the process of finding a partner? Believe it or not, someone has done it and not only did it go well, but he got married. Now this programmer tells what the process was like for the AI ​​to talk to 5,000 women without lifting almost a finger.

His name is Aleksandr Zhadan and He is a programmer from Moscow who decided to use artificial intelligence for something different. While others use it to retouch images, rewrite texts or a thousand other things, what he had in mind was to take advantage of it when looking for a partner. His goal: not to have to interact with thousands of women and still find the ideal one.

Modified ChatGPT

Zhadan decided to make a modification to OpenAI’s GPT artificial intelligence, which has already been more than proven to be one of the references on the market. He had to make a number of important changes and adjust the behavior of the AI ​​so that he could meet the challenge of talk to 5,000 women candidates to become your partner.

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It’s not that the programmer’s plan was too romantic, but he didn’t seem very interested in that part of the relationship either. His main mission, as we said, was to not have to go through the entire prior process and let the AI ​​take care of it He thought it was great.

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A seamless plan

The way Zhadan had programmed ChatGPT allowed him to stay completely on the sidelines while the AI ​​took care of everything. First, AI started the conversation with women that might fit the interests of their benefactor. If they responded, an exchange of messages began in which the programmer did not have to do anything at all. The answers and all the progress of the conversations were prepared in advance and the AI ​​knew what it had to respond and say at all times to continue moving forward with the talks.

The only thing Zhadan had to do at that point was, if he felt like it, review the conversation logs and see what the women talking to his AI were like. Meanwhile, what she was busy with was continuing to improve the prompts and the different parameters and response ranges that the AI ​​would give to each of the women she was talking to. His behavior had to be totally human and, at the same time, fit with the way in which he expressed himself in reality.

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In some cases, apparently not many, Zhadan himself was able to participate in real encounters to see if the woman in question fit what he was looking for. This only occurred in cases where the conversation with the AI ​​had already progressed far enough. Nevertheless, before proceeding to appointmentsthere were certain filters that the programmer applied, such as eliminating from the equation women who appeared with alcoholic beverages in some of their photographs.

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It would have been easy to think that the surrealism and, in some cases, ridiculousness of Zhadan’s project would have ended up being a failure. But, as we said before, he ended up marrying one of those women. The story, which seems more typical of a character from The Big Bang Theory, goes to the next level when, after reviewing many logs, the programmer decides get in front of the chat with Karina Vyalshakaevaa woman ChatGPT had started talking to in December 2022.

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Karina had no idea what had really happened, and when Zhadan told her, she was shocked. However, the one who is now his wife He admits that it didn’t bother him. because it understands that the programmer put a lot of effort into creating the prompts, responses and routines of the artificial intelligence. He also mentions that what he values ​​most is the relationship they both have in real life.

And how does a couple formed in such a strange way get married so suddenly? You don’t have to think about it too much: the “fault” was also ChatGPT. The AI I had mistakenly understood that Karina wanted to get married, because one day the girl said “I want to go to a wedding.” So the artificial intelligence recommended in one of the summaries to her creator that it would be time to propose to Karina. Zhadan followed the AI’s recommendation, asked him, said yes, and now his adventure is part of the history of artificial intelligence. Love in 2024.

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